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Bad Apples & Weak Links
One
bad apple spoils the bushel. A chain is only as strong as its weakest link.
But is it always true?
(First
published in the July 29, 1979 issue of The Pentecostal Evangel)
Few
things are more disgusting than a rotten apple. What could have provided a
delicious and wholesome snack has become a brown and wrinkled piece of garbage!
And it is common knowledge what
happens if a bad apple is put up against a good apple. The decay spreads
contagiously and irreversibly.
So, from time immemorial, we have
been told that one bad apple spoils the bushel.
Another favorite axiom concerns the
chain.
A chain is a very useful commodity.
Any farmer or trucker can give hearty testimony to the versatility of a simple
chain. Chains are used for heavy lifting, for pulling cars out of snowdrifts,
and for holding things in place.
But it is universally known that a
chain is only as strong as its weakest link. When you have a grand piano
suspended three stories above the pavement and one link takes a breather, you
can only hope the maestro had insurance.
That single naughty little link
reduces the quality of the entire chain drastically! The chain is then either
discarded, becomes two short chains, or is repaired with a new link.
The best quality chain is one where
each link is just as strong as every other link. Granted! But does this
necessarily apply to human lives? Is a church, for example, only as good as its
poorest, laziest, weakest member?
If we applied these principles to
individuals, we would banish all "weak links and bad apples" into
outerness! And who would escape? The Scripture tells us we've all been "bad
apples and weak links," missing the full glory of God and deserving of His
judgment!
The problem is that however true
these illustrations are when applied to apples and chains, they are totally
inadequate in the human situation. In fact, they become vicious, intimidating,
and coldly impersonal. People are not irredeemable apples or lifeless metal.
Whenever these illustrations are
used, we immediately think of some individual -- or of ourselves. Thus being
accused, we are marked. And being marked, we become virtually outcasts -- people
to be avoided, omitted, and snubbed.
This kind of thinking is completely
the reverse of scriptural directives and examples. Christ's ministry had a very
definite thrust toward helping "bad apples and weak links." His
ministry was one of healing and support, which is to be our model.
This is how Paul summed it up,
speaking to the Ephesian elders: "In everything I did, I showed you that by
this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words of the Lord
Jesus: 'It is more blessed to give than to receive' " (Acts 20:35). In the
King James, the key phrase is rendered, "to support the weak."
Christ's entire life was a detailed
example of supporting and helping the "weak links and bad apples" of
His day. Especially 12 who followed Him around.
In all His teaching Christ never used
a parable or illustration that would intimidate or hurt a weaker brother or
sister. And neither should we. We are to support and help.
How then are we to administer this
help? We must speak to the whole person. We must minister to the spiritual, or
faith of a person; to the emotional, or psychology of a person; and to physical
needs.
The first area of ministry, to the
spiritual, we find discussed in Romans 14: "Accept him whose faith is weak,
without passing judgment on disputable matters" (v. 1).
"You, then, why do you judge
your brother? Or why do you look down on your brother? For we will all stand
before God's judgment seat" (v. 10).
"Therefore, let us stop passing
judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling
block or obstacle in your brother's way" (v. 13).
Each of us is unique, as God created
us. It would be foolish to expect salvation to eliminate all our distinctive
traits of character. Salvation only eliminates sin. It transforms our
personality so that instead of abusing our created purpose, we start using our
potential to the glory of God.
But essentially we are the same
person. Before salvation, we are in God's image marred by the disfiguring of
sin. After salvation, we are in God's image becoming glorified and restored by
grace. And the image God has given each of us is unique.
Because of our characteristic
differences, our manner of believing will also be different. While we share the
same object of belief, we all vary, just a little, in how we see what we
believe, and how we interpret it.
Your muscles are not the same as my
muscles. And my eyes are not the same as your eyes. God made us with
differences. And where Scripture is not absolute, there will be differences of
opinion.
God through His Word, has encompassed
His children within a protective circle of absolutes. As long as we remain
within this circle, we are safe in His care.
But we cannot condemn anyone else for
moving around or being in a different part of the circle than we are -- even if
they are close to the edge. Our condemning another might put us outside the
circle of safety, and very probably would cause the other to go over the edge
with us.
Instead, our differences are to be a
blessing rather than a blight. Each of us enhances the body of Christ
differently. This is our beauty and His glory, since it is He who is in us.
We must accept these reasonable
differences -- even if the difference is weakness. We must accept a person in
his weakness, as Christ has accepted us. If another's faith is weak, we should
seek to strengthen him or her by sharing the strength Christ has blessed us
with.
Christians cannot accept the cruel
and ugly concept of the survival of the fittest at the cost of all others. Our
lives are to be shining examples of sharing and acceptance that pierces through
the depressing darkness of the world's need.
How could we begin to accept a sinner
outside the gate when we refuse to accept and support each other who are already
inside the gate? We must be committed to supporting and strengthening the weak
in faith, lest we ourselves become faithless again.
The second area of ministry is to the
emotional well-being of a person. Here we refer to Romans 15:1-3: "We who
are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak, and not to please
ourselves. Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.
For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: 'The insults of
those who insult you have fallen on me.’"
Generally speaking, psychological
problems are rooted in emotional problems, which are rooted in how we think or
feel about ourselves. If we feel good about ourselves, things go well. If we
feel bad about ourselves, we are emotionally perched on the edge of a cliff
ready to jump off at the next bad word.
Usually these bad feelings begin with
a failure, or a situation we have interpreted as failure. The failure
embarrasses us and we feel guilty, whether we really are or not. We feel as if
the whole world is pointing a long, wagging finger at us and laughing
hysterically and accusingly. Brother! We sure could use a friend about now!
As Christians, that is what we are
called upon to be: friends! Someone with a shoulder to cry on. Someone with arms
for hugging and holding up others. Someone with a large vocabulary of soft,
sweet, encouraging words. Someone willing to share whatever it takes to help.
Regardless of what the failing or
weakness is, we must minister to it.
If it is sin of any kind or degree,
we must minister in loving compassion. If the failing is a mistake, misjudgment,
misunderstanding, an incomplete or poorly done task, an omission, or
whatever-our reaction must always be compassion and love.
Even in those instances when
correction or criticism is necessary, it must always be done with compassion and
love. Our intent is to minister, and not to pass judgment.
The last area of ministry is to the
physical. This can be broken down into concern for good health, concern for
physical safety and well-being, and concern for material needs.
We need simply to look to the example
of Jesus and His ministry to realize the validity of this first concern. No one
was more concerned for the health of a person than He.
And the proper attitude we are to
have is explained by John, writing to his friend Gaius: "Dear friend, I
pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as
your soul is getting along well" (3 John 2).
All our actions begin in the mind.
Our attitude toward all must be one of well-wishing and goodwill. And we must
back this desire of good for others with prayers.
But our attitude and prayers are only
the beginning. Again, John gave us a guideline: "This is how we know what
love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our
lives for our brothers. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother
in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear
children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in
truth" (1 John 3:16-18).
As Christians, we are obligated to
show concern for each other. And these obligations go beyond just expressing
that concern in words.
Our actions validate and verify the
truth and sincerity of our expressed concern. My concern for your need will not
pay your overdue electric bill, keep the bank from repossessing your car, or put
food on your table. If we are not willing to give of our material substance, and
give consistently as needed, our ministry to the whole person will be forever
futile and incomplete.
But wait a minute, someone protests!
Why should we even bother with "bad apples and weak links"? Who
exactly are they?
Good questions. For the why, we go
again to Romans: "For none of us lives to himself alone and none of us dies
to himself alone" (14:7).
"Accept one another, then, just
as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God" (15:7).
Whatever we do, we do it to someone
else. Our every action touches someone in the physical world or in the spiritual
world.
It's like being in a crowd where no
matter which direction you move, you bump someone. The only way to get along in
such a situation is to observe the Golden Rule. We are stuck with each other, so
we might as well help each other!
The second verse glorifies the whole
situation. We were accepted in all our badness and weakness by Christ. To accept
others is to bring honor to the Lord of our lives. To reject others is to become
rejected (Matthew 25:31-46).
That's the why. And the next part of
the question is: Who?
Who are the "bad apples and weak
links"? Who is the weaker brother?
"Brothers, think of what you
were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not
many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God chose the foolish
things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to
shame the strong. He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised
things-and the things that are not-to nullify the things that are, so that no
man may boast before him. It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who
has become for us wisdom from God-that is, our righteousness, holiness al1d
redemption. Therefore, as it is written: 'Let him who boasts boast in the Lord'
" (1 Corinthians 1:26-31).
We are the weaker brother! If there
are any potential "bad apples and weak links," we're the ones!
All apples, in or out of a barrel,
will eventually rot. And the rottenness cannot be reversed or removed without
harming the apple.
People are not apples.
Chains are intended to be used in
situations of abusive stress. And it can only be expected that they will
occasionally break.
People are not chains.
When someone begins to rot with
problems or sin, we can apply healing and restoration to that rottenness through
the love of Christ in action.
When someone is in a stress
situation, we can relieve that pressure and tension through the love of Christ
in action.
It is a senseless tragedy to dismiss
or discard a personality because of something we consider a blemish or a
mistake. And it is negligent abuse to be the stronger human link on either side
of a weaker human link and allow stress to break that person. Our lack of action
and lack of love would directly contribute to the destruction of that person.
Our responsibility, as clearly
directed in Scripture, is to hold each other up and hold each other together,
exhibiting actively the supportive love of Christ (Ephesians 5:1,2).
We were once the "bad
apples," and Someone came and picked us up in spite of our rottenness. We
were once hopelessly weak, but Someone came and held us together,
"recasting" us in His strength.
In reality, a Christian community is
only as weak as its strongest members. And we are the "good apples"
placed as witnesses in this world-sized barrel of "bad apples," with
the powerful promise and truth of redemption and regeneration.
And the witness begins inside the
gate.
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